Midlife Crisis

The midlife crisis usually occurs around 40-55, but actually develops when your view and ideals of what you’ve been led to believe in the first part of your life doesn’t match up with your current reality. It’s a process that we burnout from any type of diversity, loss of job, loss of reputation, divorce, death of a loved one or illness occurs. We become dissatisfied with life and we start asking questions about ourselves and what we want and don’t want anymore.

In the first half of our lives we listen to our parents and serve a social agenda. We develop sufficient ego strength to leave parents, venture out into the world, commit to obligations, partner up, serve citizenship roles, create security, status and conform to what is expected. We give our freedom away to others and act in accordance to societal expectations and neglect what’s important to us.

The investments we make in the first half of our lives ultimately betray us in the second half of life. As Carl Jung, once said “What was great in the morning will no longer do in the afternoon, and what was true in the morning will become a lie in the evening.”

Signs that you’re going
through a Midlife Crisis

  • Lost hopes, and dreams
  • Not sure of who you truly are
  • Lethargy, worthlessness, ashamed
  • Dissatisfied with life
  • Narrowing of one’s future
  • Depression and Anxiety

How can I help you

I will encourage you to unlearn, all those rigid beliefs, faulty expectations, junk values and ridiculous standards that our culture has immersed you in since childhood. I will help realign you with your own intrinsic values, and remind you that you’re original and independent of others. This will make you feel more confident and aware of your own psychological needs and allow you to live your life with authentic purpose.

"Midway upon the journey of my life I found myself in a dark wood, where the right way was lost.”"


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Other Services


Guidance is offered to support that universal sense of feeling vulnerable in which we feel disempowered and at a loss to who we are, or what we’re here for.


Direction is provided to support those strong feelings of worry, dread, and fear that create exhaustion and interference from living our everyday lives. We need to be reassured and have a responsible approach to change and our futures.

Relationship Repair

Treatment is provided to teach couples effective communication skills, that are based on respect and understanding of each other. So a renewed commitment and appreciation for one another can occur.

Grief and Loss

Guidance is provided to individuals to support and help them through the grieving process. Loss is experienced in many different ways, but transitioning through the stages of grief can be made easier, with the support of an empathetic and understanding counsellor.

Stress Management

Direction is provided to help individuals cope and ease stress levels, while maintaining balance and perspective.

Self Esteem

Counselling is provided to support individuals who would like to develop a stronger sense of self. To grow in self awareness and be confident enough to be themselves.


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Separation Support

Counselling will be provided to support individuals through separation and divorce. Men and Women report a huge range of intense reactions and feelings during and after separation. I have walked this path myself and will be able to provide support, guidance and encouragement through this tough time.